Saturday, January 12, 2019

MAKING ARRANGEMENTS... TO LEAVE SOMETHING BEHIND


My wife and I have agreed that this is the year we will make our arrangements. (Funny, when someone says or writes the forgoing phrase no one has to ask, “And what arrangements would that be”)?

Jean and I had previously decided we would visit Ireland, N. Ireland and Scotland prior to our 70th birthdays. And we just managed to make it happen in time since we flew there, and toured these countries several months ago.

In much the same way, she and I intend to complete our Last Will & Testament, Life Estate, and burial arrangements this year; (as I have previously implied).

Scripture assures us that, “It is appointed unto man once to die.” (Hebrews 9:27)

Death simply isn’t an option. It never has been. (Well, unless you happen to be one of those Old Testament saints, Enoch and Elijah). Even those whom Christ raised from the dead, such as Jairus’ daughter and Lazarus, died a second and final time.

Interestingly enough, (except to him) the well-known pastor and radio evangelist, Chuck Swindoll, experienced what might be characterized as a “trial run.”

As Swindoll walked into the lobby of his church one day, he heard what seemed to be funeral music emanating from the sanctuary. He pulled his pocket calendar out of his coat, and thumbed to the appropriate date; just in case he had forgotten one of his parishioner’s funeral services. And having done so, he thought, “Nope, there is no funeral scheduled for today.”

Looking around, Chuck didn’t see any members of his staff, and he summarily walked towards the sanctuary doors. Opening the center door, he was greeted with the most unexpected sight any person has ever beheld.

A casket, and next to the casket…a poster-sized photo of Chuck Swindoll!

Pt. 2

At that moment, the preacher reflected that he checked his watch to see if it was still running, and checked his pulse to see if his heart was still pumping blood.

Suddenly, several members of Rev. Swindoll’s staff jumped up from their hiding places. One from behind the casket. Another from behind a back door. And still another from behind a stage curtain.

And in unison they yelled, “Surprise!”

The entire scenario was the most spectacular surprise the minister had ever experienced; (though not a very good one). Having shared the “practical joke” with his radio audience, Swindoll drew an ominous lesson from the story.

“One day, my friends, that casket will no longer be empty, nor will the pews be empty, but will be occupied by my friends, and relatives. We all have a date with the grim reaper, and there’s simply nothing we can do about it.”

I like to think I am very practical about the reality of my passing. Tonight, I have listed each of my children’s names on a Word document, along with the corresponding personal possessions I wish to bequeath to each of them.

My own father prepared well for his own passing. During the final eight or ten years of his life he created multiplied hours of audio tape which detailed his childhood and military life. In the past few years I have converted the tapes to CD’s, and subsequently moved them to hard drives. I have also transcribed every word my father spoke on the audio tapes into a volume which can be passed down to my children’s children.

“It is appointed unto man once to die.”

No profounder or “in your face” phrase exists among any of the world’s hundreds of languages.

Pt. 3

No doubt, the import and impact of the “appointed unto man” passage of scripture has aroused fear in the bosoms of multiplied thousands of men, women and children over the past 2,000 years; since it was penned by the unknown author of the Book of Hebrews.

Granted, the time and method of my individual passing provokes a bit of anxiety, but that which has been characterized as “unknown” by some, “the life which is not yet, but which is to come,” carries with it not a whit of fear for me. Au contraire. Quite the opposite. As a believer I know that I know that the Lord Jesus Christ has gone before me, and has prepared a place for me.

Given all the foregoing considerations, where does all this information, and subsequent insight leave us?

Several things come to mind, and I think these variables can be summarized by three words:

Heritage, Destiny, Legacy

We receive a Heritage

We stand on the shoulders of giants. I can tell you the names of my spiritual fathers, but I can’t begin to guess the identities of my spiritual grandfather(s) or grandmother(s). And so forth and so on. The unbroken chain of faithful believers who have impacted one, and that one impacting the next stretches back to at least one of the original disciples, and Jesus, Himself. If only one had failed to, as it were, receive and run with the baton, I might not have been afforded the opportunity to know, love and serve my Lord.

We fulfill a Destiny

Every day that passes I pray, “Lord, don’t allow me to miss the remainder of my Destiny.”

We have been called to fulfill a task. We have been called to impact our fellow human beings. Nothing more than our relationship with God, Himself is more important. It behooves us to discover our Destiny, and begin to take the actions which combine to fulfill it.

We leave a Legacy

Those whom God sets in our pathway, and whom we impact are, ultimately, our Legacy. One of my former interns once bestowed a spontaneous promise on me when she said,

“Dr. Bill, I don’t want to disappoint you. I’ll go for you when you can no longer go. I’ll speak for you when you can no longer speak. I’ll reach, teach and keep people in your name long after you have gone on to your reward.”

My mission statement is:

“My students are living messages to a time that I will never see.”

Interestingly enough, the Legacy I leave behind is the next person’s Heritage.

Heritage, Destiny and Legacy represent a never-ending circle which keeps on giving.

Pt. 4

One method by which I am currently fulfilling my Destiny is through my writing. Following is a letter I have written to my descendants, and is an example of my intention and commitment to “leave something behind.”

“I stare into the eyes of that yellowing, fading portrait of my great Grandparents now, and their dull, unblinking eyes reveal

… absolutely nothing.

And I have often mused, “Why didn’t you leave something behind?”

Oh, how I would have enjoyed knowing you. How wonderful it would have been if you had left some word, some reflection, something of yourselves.

Well, my dear descendants, I have decided NOT to repeat their mistake; (and yes, I consider it an irrevocable mistake; which once the party has passed from this earth can never be corrected.) I think the following daily journal entries, (as well as my previously written autobiography, counseling memoirs, and other volumes) will not only elicit a few laughs, but provide you some insight into the life of your ancestor; someone not unlike yourself, who lived, and loved, and moved, and breathed, and made his way about this earth, and even impacted a few for good, “before you were even a twinkle.”

You deserve it.

And this writer, who by the time you read these words may have long since ceased to live, and love, and breathe, and move, and enjoy the beauty which God has visited upon our planet, can only wish you well, and exhort you to do as I am currently doing…

We are all too close to having eyes which do not see, ears which do not hear, and mouths which do not speak. While there is still time,

Leave something of yourself behind.

And so much more crucial than my previous admonition, I earnestly pray, (and I have prayed for you when you were not, and when only God knew you by name) that you will give your life to the Lord Jesus Christ, and faithfully serve Him, as I believe that I have done. For as a wise and equally well-known man of my time, Dr. James Dobson, (whom I once met, and conversed with) has encouraged his own children, and grandchildren…

… 'Be There!'

… 'Be There!'

I hope to meet you in heaven. I’ll be waiting just inside the gate.”



My friends allow me to encourage you to receive a Heritage, Fulfill a Destiny and leave a Legacy. Purposely include yourself in that long, unbroken chain of believers who have embraced their spiritual calling.

Leave Something Behind

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