Forward
Although
I am a pastoral counselor and have "sat with" thousands of men, women
and children over the past two and half decades, I am ever mindful of those who
have never sought out my services; at least in the traditional way.
For
you see, I'm a great advocate of what I refer to as "momentary
ministry" and hardly a day goes by that I don't pray, "Lord, help me
to fulfill whatever remains of my destiny, and please don't let me miss out on
an opportunity I might regard as 'circumstantial' but which you foreknew before
the worlds were breathed into place.”
And
God has always been faithful to remind me of what He is doing and when He is
about to do it. And for that I am grateful.
Pt.
1
I
love the Elvis Channel 19 on Sirius Radio, and listen to it as often as I sit
behind the wheel of my 2015 Nissan Altima. While I can't say I like every song
"The King of Rock 'n Roll" ever recorded, and I am all too aware
Elvis came up a bit short in the "righteous and faithful to the
Creator" department, there is little or no doubt God gifted that
Mississippi boy with the most extraordinary voice in the history of this
planet.
However,
as much as the music, I love to listen to Elvis' (now 80 year old) childhood
friend, George Klein, as he interviews "The Memphis Mafia" and other
members of Presley's personal entourage. And as a result, I have learned a
great deal about "the king" (henceforth non-capitalized) that I would
not have otherwise been privy.
One
man played a major role in shaping the look of the king's iconic hairdo: Larry
Geller. Geller opened up his first hair salon in West Hollywood well over half
a century ago; quickly becoming a must-visit destination for stars like Marlon
Brando, Rock Hudson, and Steve McQueen. Recently, Mr. Klein interviewed Larry
Geller, and the story he told was nothing less than captivating.
The
year was 1960 and Elvis summoned Larry Geller to meet at Graceland, and to do
what he did best. As the master stylist set about his business the two men
discovered they had much in common, including a love for literature. Thinking
he would finish his work and depart the premises, Presley invited him to remain
a while, and "the while" turned into three hours, during which time
Elvis shared stories of his growing up years, his family having been "dirt
poor" and his sometimes going to bed hungry, and the great love he had for
his mother.
As
Geller packed up his tools he offered to stop by, from time to time, and drop
off a few of his favorite volumes. With this, Elvis suggested he walk away from
his established business and become his personal hair stylist. It took the
glorified barber about ten seconds to make a decision. He served as the
singer's spiritual mentor and stylist from that day to the day he departed this
life, and actually prepared the king's hair for his funeral service.
Perhaps
it was because Elvis never forgot his roots that he so well understood the
importance of giving that which he had to give. Although he often lavished
expensive rings and watches and automobiles upon those who served him, it is
obvious that Elvis knew how to give perhaps the best gift anyone could ever
give,
...
the gift of his presence.
Pt.
2
I
like to think the king modeled this particular gift after THE King; our Lord
Jesus Christ. At least, He has been my own personal role model for the past 50
years; since I first devoted my life to Him just after my high school
graduation in 1967. While the Savior went about spreading the Good News,
healing the leper, bringing sight to the blind, and raising the dead, I think
in His ability to give the gift of His presence, He was second to none.
I
had the opportunity to give that same singular gift today.
As
my employer and I were stepping out of the door this afternoon, we saw her. A
heavy set young woman was just passing the office, as she made her way down the
sidewalk, and we noticed one another at the same moment.
"Hello
there. Could either one of you give me a ride to the nearest bus stop?"
Ginger
mentioned that I was about to leave and I might be inclined to assist her. I
immediately acquiesced, and invited the stranger to open the passenger door of
my car, and get in.
Having
backed out of the drive way, I looked over at my newfound friend and queried,
"Listen,
you needn't worry about waiting on a bus. I'll take you where you want to
go."
My
momentary guest smiled and said that she was a recovering heroin addict and
that she was planning to stay the night in a local mission. As a result, I
aimed my automobile towards "Talbot House." As we drove along I told
"Laura" that, though I had no personal history of addiction, I had
led a twelve step group for two years, and I made a point to tell her that I am
convinced that the "Higher Power" mindset leaves something to be
desired, and that a saving faith in the Lord Jesus Christ is sufficient to not
only get clean, but remain free.
Pt.
3
As
we neared our supposed destination Laura decided that,
"Well
no, I'm not quite ready to register at the mission. Just leave me off at the
nearest corner and I'll walk over there when I can summon up the courage."
I
passed the intersection which led to the object of her quest, and after a
couple more blocks I pulled over. As the young woman fumbled with the door lock
I realized the great responsibility which was momentarily mine, and I was all
too aware that it was unlikely I would ever lay eyes on this stranger again.
And
with this, I placed my right hand on the girl's left shoulder, and challenged
her with,
"You
know, Laura. I just love the phrase from a popular novel.
'Your
wounds are sad to behold, but you are NOT your wounds.' Our wounds need not
characterize who we are."
(and)
"Please
believe that God has plans for your life."
(and)
"Stay
Encouraged."
Laura
smiled a half smile, thanked me, and stepped out the door.
I
gave this precious stranger the gift of my presence, and I like to think she
will remember our momentary acquaintance for quite some time.
...I
know I will.
William McDonald, PhD. Excerpt from (Mc)Donald's Daily Diary, Vol. 38. Copyright Pending.
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