I was
watching an episode of “Highway to Heaven,” with Michael Landon and Victor French,
on Netflex recently. And as I have realized, upon my exposure to the reruns of
the program, that the late great producer/director/actor tended to use some of
the cast from “Little House on the Prairie” on his subsequent series.
This
particular program related to baseball, and the angel character, (Landon) and
human character (French) had been assigned to come along side an aging ex-Negro
league player; portrayed by Moses Gunn. By now, he was 70 and sold
concessionary goods in the stadium entranceway. However, by some heavenly
stroke of luck, he was chosen by the “Toro’s” to bring the team back from a
losing season.
While it
could only happen on primetime television, I admit, it was a terrific yarn and,
as you might expect, Moses won the day, and found himself pitching 100 mph
balls, and striking out one after another of his opponents.
Young again.
How many of us could wish to revisit age 20 or 30, and be granted the
wherewithal to do the things we once did, and with as much speed and dexterity?
I mean, I’m
a big fan of movies such as, “The Time Machine” and “Back to the Future.” And
while in these movies the characters don’t regress in age, they are given the
opportunity to visit times and seasons and personalities which have long since
passed from the scene.
Speaking of
‘young again,’ something happened today which if you’d warned me in advance, I
would have told you was absolutely impossible, (or at least highly improbable).
Pt. 2
Though a
thunderstorm was just minutes from bombarding our little community, it was time
to take my pet pooch out for her afternoon constitutional; which I proceeded to
do.
Did I
mention Queenie, a precious little Shih Tzu, came to us after having been
discovered by a friend in a thunderstorm?
(Well, she did). Did I mention that, as a result, she has always been super-sensitive
to thunder, lightning, and monsoon variety rainstorms? (Well, she has).
I can tell
you, today was no exception.
For as I
hooked up her collar and leash, and proceeded to walk Queenie down our long
driveway, she resisted. Did I say she resisted? (Well, she did). I found myself
pulling the 15 pound pooch down Shadow Wood Lane, and pull as I may, she was
loathe to cooperate with me. And thus, after I had reached the end of my
driveway, and had dragged Queenie a few feet down the road, I picked her up.
One way or the other I was determined to ferry her to our neighborhood dog
path; a couple hundred feet from my front yard.
Having
arrived at our destination, I set my pet pooch in the grass, and she summarily
began to make her liquid deposit. And having done her thing, there was no
thought in my mind about picking her up again. Given the thunder and lightning
respectively rolling and flashing around us, I knew she would gladly precede me
back to our little house.
(And precede
me, she did).
It may be
helpful for you to realize that Queenie was already an old dog when we adopted
her; in human terms, perhaps 50 years of age. At this point in time, she is
approaching 80, and has definitely ‘seen better days.’ And as a result, you
might understand my abject shock when she took off like a bullet!
Pt. 3
I mean, I
could barely keep up, walking as fast as my two 29” legs could carry me; while
my precious pet pooper was doing all she could to move her four five inch legs
in unison; as she pulled me towards what she perceived as the goal line. (It
was apparently her turn to drag me down the road)!
Did I say I
could barely keep up? (I thought I did). The little Shih Tzu’s stride was
nothing less than amazing! The rhythmic motion of her tiny legs all but
shouted, “If you want to stay out in this deplorable weather, go for it, but
I’m heading for the OK Corral!”
So out of
character for a pet pooch living out the last couple of years of her life on
this planet.
Speaking of
venerable creatures putting on the vestiges of youth, one of my favorite
stories involves my own father.
As my wife
and I were watching “The Green Mile” five years ago, I received a call from the
nursing home informing me that my dad was, at that moment, walking his own
green mile.
He’d been
found non-responsive in his bathroom by a nurse’s aide, and was, the RN told
me, being taken by ambulance to the local hospital. Of course, my wife and I
jumped in the car, retrieved my mother from her house, and headed to the ER.
When a nurse
stepped through the double doors, I knew. I just knew. Her countenance and her
words betrayed her. “Are you the family of Henry McDonald?” To which I
responded in the affirmative. Ms. Futch led us to a nearby cubicle, where we
waited for the attending physician.
A couple of
minutes elapsed, and then what passed for a doctor stepped through the door.
Among the dozens of doctors to whom I have ever known or been introduced, she
is by far the most memorable of them all; both for her looks and her demeanor.
Pt. 4
“Hello, I’m
Dr. Haskins.”
We found
ourselves staring in disbelief at what might have easily passed for a
debutante. Her hair was the model of an expensive coiffure, she wore dark
mascara and bright red lipstick, and instead of the traditional house dress and
lab coat, she wore something closer to an evening gown.
And before
we could get past our initial shock, she continued.
“I’m sorry.
He didn’t make it.”
And with
this rather abrupt revelation, my mother was visibly moved, so much so that she
involuntarily jerked backward in her seat. And having shared the news, Dr.
Haskins turned on her heels and walked out the door.
I was
flabbergasted. Talk about rude. This was rudeness incarnate.
Thankfully,
Nurse Futch quickly reentered the room, and directed my mother, wife and I
towards the place where my father lay. As much as the doctor exuded coolness
and impersonality, the nurse displayed warmth and empathy. Wrapping her arms
around my mother, she led us to a nearby cubicle.
Speaking of ‘young
beyond his years,’ (and the previous action word in the foregoing paragraph) in
his mid-60’s my father displayed
extraordinary strength, when he assisted me in the erection of a backyard
fence. With each length of fence, he stooped to pick up the front and I the
back. And as we toted the couple hundred pound panel, and while in my early
40’s, I huffed and puffed, my dad never broke a sweat, or acted the least bit winded.
All this to
say that on his last day on this planet, and at the grand old age of 86, he
exhibited similar behavior.
Pt. 5
Although my
father had been admitted to the hospital the previous December, as the result
of a major stroke, and though he’d resided in the hospital for a couple of
months, and though he’d subsequently done residential rehabilitation in a
nursing home environment, on his last day on earth he’d walked further with his
trusty walker than he’d walked during the course of the past quarter year. The
length of two hallways.
I’ve never
heard it said, but I have come to believe that geriatric rehab will either cure
you or kill you. (In the case of my father, it was the latter of the two
variables).
Life is
momentary. Here today. Gone tomorrow.
And yet…
I love the
following passage of scripture which characterizes all that I have previously
implied.
“Now then, just as the Lord
promised, He has kept me alive for forty-five years since the time He said this
to Moses, while Israel moved about in the wilderness.
So here I am today at eighty-five years
old! I am still as strong today as I the day Moses sent me out. I'm just as vigorous to go out to battle now as I was then." (Joshua
14:10-11)
None of us
are guaranteed another moment, but I am thankful for the physical wherewithal
God has provided me, and my father before me. While I am just two years sort of
70, I feel as strong or stronger today than half a century hence. Granted, I
have worked out all my life, and I have no intention of stopping now. But it is
simply refreshing to me that an old man has the capacity to be as young and
vigorous as someone half his age.
God grant
that each of us fulfill our eternal destinies, and continue to exercise the
emotional and physical strength with which He has endowed us.
William McDonald, PhD. Excerpt from (Mc)Donald's Daily Diary, Vol. 62. Copyright Pending.
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