Sunday, May 17, 2026

A TELL 'EM GOODBYE KINDA GUY

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About five years ago, our aged pastor made the decision to retire. He had been experiencing some medical issues, and it was just time. No sooner had “Brother Kasey” submitted his resignation, and stepped away from the pulpit, than “Robert Tripplet,” one of our parishioners, passed away. As a result, our pastor agreed to preach Robert’s funeral; which he subsequently did. However, given his challenged mobility, and his inability to navigate a cemetery environment, Rev. Kasey asked me to do the graveside ceremony; which I proceeded to do. I counted it a privilege to serve, in effect, as our pastor’s liaison, or go between his, and the next pastor’s ministries.

Fast forward half a decade, and I have been serving as a pastoral counselor in a church in central Florida. Having faithfully fulfilled his role for twenty years, our pastor “Dr. Fred” made a decision to accept a new position with a very large church; which had just merged with our much smaller church. The day after our congregation voted to approve the merger, yours truly walked into the sanctuary, and began to sing “Great if Thy Faithfulness;” the first song sung in the church since the merger. Again, I felt like an intermediary between past and present; the old administration and the new administration.

And then just yesterday, as the worship service came to an end, I was offered the opportunity to pay tribute to this pastor and his wife on the what was his last Sunday with us, invite the parishioners into the fellowship hall for snacks and desert, and pray over the food.

It seems I am a “tell em goodbye kinda guy.”

by Bill McDonald, PhD