Bill Pearce,
the host of the radio program, “Night Sounds” reflects on the story of the
“Double Eagle,” a helium balloon which lifted off from a potato field in Maine
with the ultimate goal of landing in Paris, France.
It seems as
the craft wound its way across the ocean, it began to lose altitude, and the
helmsman was faced with the decision to either drop into the waters of the
rough and uncertain Atlantic, or drop what had only a moment before seemed to
be crucial cargo.
The captain
and his passenger began to throw all sorts of items overboard. Chairs, cameras,
food, and even water. Anything which had the potential to lighten the load, and
allow the craft to remain airborne.
Well, I can
tell you their attempt to lessen the weight of the aircraft and remain in the
steering currents long enough to reach their goal… was successful, though at a
significant cost. At least until the moment when it became imperative to
dispense with what was, after all, momentary matter, or arbitrary stuff.
As a
counselor I can both professionally and experientially identify with the
history of the crew of the Double Eagle.
Having
literally counseled thousands of clients over the course of more than two
decades, I have heard the most horrendous, compelling stories of people who
were in danger of going down in their own figurative Double Eagle.
And I would
often repeat a self-styled adage.
“Like going
to sleep with your feet in a wet gray mixture, only to wake up and discover its
… concrete.”
(Odd, it
occurs to me that only in the past couple of years I accepted a part-time
management position with a
… concrete
construction company)!
My
co-counselor, Sherri by name, once counseled a particular young lady, and after
a few weeks suggested she bring in her eight year old daughter.
That evening
Margery summoned her daughter.
“Janie,
there’s a woman at our church who I’ve been speaking to. I wonder if you would
talk with her.”
Janie
responded with a quizzical look, and shrugged.
“Uh, I don’t
know, Mom. What kind of problems does she have?”
(I’m almost
prone to include, “LOL.”)
And though
this has to be one of the most humorous stories which ever came out of my own counseling
experience, I think it has much to teach us.
We all have
issues which, with the years, accumulate and gain weight. And sometimes we need
someone “with flesh on” to come along side, and not unlike the infamous Double
Eagle, help us throw out some of the accumulated weight.
The baggage
of life may represent the memory and ever present trauma of having been abused
as a child, it may look more like the guilt of having, as an unwed teen, aborted
a child, or sadly it may involve dispensing with an adulterous spouse who has
chosen the path of betrayal one too many times.
There’s a
heaven to gain and a hell to shun, and sometimes the latter includes the hell
of a life gone bad, but which has the potential of going good.
Sometimes we
are guilty of limiting God, and His plans for lives, as the result of the
accumulated weight of “things” which serve to bow us low and keep us stuck.
I believe there is a life to be had, and a
goal to be reached, but it may involve
… throwing
out some of the weight.
By William McDonald, PhD. Excerpt from "(Mc)Donald's Daily Diary" Vol. 14. Volumes 1-15, Copyright 2015.
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