Back in the
late 60’s another young man and I co-founded a local ‘outpost’ in Florida of an
international Assemblies of God boys group known as “Royal Rangers.” A few
years later, I had the privilege of co-founding a second group in Virginia. I
am pleased to say that, almost half a century later, both groups are still
“going strong.”
Speaking of
the first group to which I alluded, a couple years ago I ran into one of my
long lost Rangers, now a middle-aged man, who has “taken up the mantle” and is
a current commander of the outpost. And it goes without saying, I am
inestimably proud of him.
I was
watching a rerun of the classic movie, “The Karate Kid” yesterday, and
something about the old film struck me as it never had before; (thus, the
emphasis with which I began this blog).
For in the
movie we see such a poignant representation of a mentoring relationship between
a man and a boy. Two characters who, while diametrically different, share a
love for a particular sport, (karate) which in turns acts as a vehicle by which
they form an inseparable personal bond.
An old
Okinawan, (Mr. Miyagi) who fought the Japanese during WWII; while his wife was
interned in a U.S. relocation camp. A teenager of Italian heritage, (Daniel
Larusso) from New Jersey who had been transplanted by his mother to the low rent
district of Reseda; a borough of Los Angeles.
Mr. Miyagi
happens to be the maintenance man for the apartment building in which Daniel
and his mother live, and as the movie progresses the older befriends the
younger.
Pt. 2
Initially,
Daniel notices Mr. Miyagi working in his shop, and notes several Bonsai trees
in various states of metamorphosis. Miyagi invites the curious boy inside, and
encourages him to create his own living work of art.
In one
dramatic scene, the young man, (whom Miyagi has begun to refer to as
“Daniel-son”) flees five or six teenage classmates who, summarily, begin to
practice their karate skills upon his head and shoulders. And since Daniel is
almost home when the one-sided fight begins, the old man cannot help but hear
“what is going down” and he rushes to assist the 17 year old. While Miyagi’s
evening presence at the apartment building is not explained, (as he owns his
own home) we see him climbing a chain link fence and jumping into the midst of
the melee, and he quickly “takes care of business;” leaving the young bullies
in various states of pain and suffering.
Later,
Daniel wakes up on a cot in Mr. Miyagi’s shop, and asks,
“Where did
Spiderman come from?”
The old
oriental man responds,
“Who?”
And the
conversation continues,
(Daniel) “No!
That couldn’t have been you!”
(Miyagi)
“Why not me? ‘Cause I old man?”
(and)
“In Okinawa
we learn two things. Fishing and Karate.”
(Daniel)
“Wow. What kind of belt do you have?”
Mr. Miyagi grins,
pulls up his pants, and exclaims,
“Canvass. JC
Penny. You like?”
Pt. 3
As the movie
progresses, Mr. Miyagi confronts Sensai Kreese, the unruly teens’ belligerent
Karate instructor, and they reach a tenuous deal whereby the bullies will leave
Daniel-son alone for two months; so that he can devote time to preparing for
the “All-Valley Karate Tournament.”
While the
wisened old man knows how to have fun, it soon becomes apparent that he also
knows how to demand respect; and in one memorable scene he seems to “kill two
birds with one stone.” Driving Daniel over to his nearby home, he ties a karate
scarf around the boy’s forehead, and “gets down to brass tacks.”
Picking up a
paintbrush, he thrusts it into his young friend’s hand, and puts him to work
varnishing an immense wooden fence which runs around the perimeter of his
oriental-styled house; careful to abjure him to religiously practice up and
down movements of his wrist, as he paints.
Of course,
before this rather unusual training regimen in the martial arts concludes,
Daniel ends up washing and polishing several old cars in the old man’s front
yard, and painting his house; respectively, moving his hands in circular, and
side to side motions.
After a
couple of days elapse, and evening is drawing near, Miyagi steps up to his
understudy, and points out a slight oversight on the outside wall of his newly
painted home.
Pointing
upwards he says,
“Daniel-son,
you missed a spot.”
By now, the
seasoned veteran’s understudy has had it up to his ying-yang, and goes into a
tirade.
“I’ve had it
with this! You think I’m your d_ _ _ _ _ slave? I’m going home!”
Pt. 4
However,
before Daniel has time to “put one foot ahead of the other” the kindly old man
provides him a lesson he will not soon forget. For as the master moves into a
classic martial arts stance, and “puts the move” on Daniel, time and time again
his skinny little understudy defends against the physical onslaught.
Suddenly,
his proverbial eyes are opened. Mr. Miyagi’s rather irregular form of training
has instilled the sort of muscle memory within him which is so integral to a successful
martial arts student; just as surely as those small Bonsai trees in the old man’s
shop were transformed before him.
Ultimately,
Daniel competes in the All Valley Tournament, and though one, after the other
of the bullies challenges him, and though Sensai Kreese does his best to
encourage his students to cheat, and knock our young hero out of the contest,
he continues to “get back up.”
When one of
the boys comes down rudely on Daniel’s leg, and it seems all hope is lost, the
teen is given a few minutes to recover; in the unlikely possibility that he
will be able to return to the ring. As you might imagine, Mr. Miyagi has a
secret weapon of sorts “up his sleeve,” and he does something which we have
seen him do in the past. Rubbing his hands together, he applies pressure to the
offended limb, and, as a result, the young lad is able to return to the arena,
and to contend against his chief protagonist.
Assuming
what Mr. Miyagi has previously referred to as “The Crane Technique,” Daniel
comes up with a high flying kick, and the two time winner of the karate
championship suffers an ignominious defeat.
Of course,
Daniel is beside himself with joy, and holds the first place trophy up in
abject elation, and screams,
“Mr. Miyagi,
WE did it!”
And “as the
curtain falls” we see the stocky little man well up with emotion, and the
grandest smile of all time lights up his countenance.
Pt. 5
As a mentor,
I often tell my own understudies that, “We stand on the shoulders of giants.”
One generation impacting another, and in so doing providing them the necessary
skills for function and success.
I am ever so
keenly aware that my influence on those whom God has set in my pathway is
momentary in nature. I simply cannot stay here. But I am determined to do what
I can, for as long as I can, to feed into young, and not so young lives.
I think Mr.
Miyagi must have also been keenly aware of the concept of “Heritage, Destiny
and Legacy,” and how that we Receive a Heritage, we Fulfill a Destiny, and we
Leave a Legacy. My favorite adage in all the world is, “My students are living
messages to a time that I will never see;” (and I think the context of the
movie so fervently exudes this principle).
As I reminisce
about the young boy’s programs which I was privileged to establish so long ago,
and the dozens of adults whom I have been afforded the opportunity to mentor
over the years, I am humbled, and grateful for the distinct honor to impact the
next generation who will, in turn, follow my lead.
And while I
cannot account for my newfound epiphany, in terms of Mr. Miyagi’s having so
thoroughly poured into his student’s life, and in making himself available, the
duo having established such a love and respect for one another, I am thankful
for the realization. I have been fortunate to have a few “Mr. Miyagi’s” in my
own life.
I cannot but
help but “pay it forward.”
(Mc)Donald's Daily Diary. Vol. 64. By William McDonald, PhD. Copyright pending.
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