I remember one particular counseling case I worked. This
client was extraordinarily inarticulate, spoke in monosyllables, was
depressive, and exhibited poor eye contact. Though counseling was expected to be
more singular than marital, his wife came with him “to interpret” for me. The
man had displayed these behavior patterns since “time immemorial.”
Of course,
counseling per se cannot begin under such conditions. Therefore, I suggested we
focus on teaching devoted to communication tools, over the course of the
initial several weeks. I also recommended that he speak to a medical doctor
about an antidepressant medication, which he did. The physician was happy to
prescribe for him.
“John” continued
to come in for several weeks, and we continued to work together on various
communication techniques. He slowly, but surely progressed ‘til on his last
“tools and techniques” visit, he was conversing with me in paragraphs, rather
than monosyllables. I was thrilled, as was his wife. Even extended family
members commented on the positive changes they were seeing in him.
We are “fearfully
and wonderfully made.” We are capable of more than we might dream. We are given
power to excel. Even those who are “stymied and stuck” may blossom like wild
flowers, after a spring rain.
Ernest Shackleton
was a man of like passion as we are, but his exploits easily rank with the Neil
Armstrong’s and Charles Lindbergh’s of the world. Shackleton lead a British
expedition to the South Pole during World War I. A great-masted ship, with a
diesel engine, was procured for the trip, and he and his men left with light
hearts and grand expectations.
Everything seemed
to fall together well ‘til the ship encountered ice flows, too thick to
navigate. The ship slowed, and stopped. The proud wooden ship never made
another mile. The crew attempted every trick to dislodge her, but she was stuck
fast.
Weeks passed, and
the sturdy ship began to creak and shudder, as the sea ice took its toll.
Eventually, the fine vessel was crushed between competing flows of ice.
Though the ship’s
fate had been anticipated, shock registered on the faces of every crew member.
Only Shackleton’s voice brought them out of their stupor.
“Let’s go home,
boys!”
The expressions on
the faces of the crew members changed immediately, and they prepared to turn
for home.
Much has been told
of that fateful journey home. The men set out on dog sleds, and made slow
progress towards civilization. Ernest knew that a small island, named Elephant,
was within reach, but it would take immeasurable effort and skill to get there.
When navigable water was reached, the dogs were sacrificed for food, and the
ship’s lifeboats, which had been drug behind the sleds, were lowered into the
icy sea. Elephant Island was reached, and the first leg of the journey was
accomplished. But there were extreme challenges ahead.
Shackleton
selected a few of the most fit men to try for South Georgia Island. South
Georgia boasted a small whaling colony, and this small speck in a “world of
hurt” was his only hope. The island was 800 miles distant, and these poor
travelers had only a couple of lifeboats to their credit.
But nothing would
deter our hero. Navigation was imperative, for had the crew been by off by only
one degree, the island would have been missed completely. Ernest was absolutely
intent on reaching his goal. He had left ten men on Elephant Island, and he was
determined to go back for them.
Miraculously Shackleton reached South Georgia Island, but the "fun" wasn't yet over. A range of mountains lay between the stalwart Englishman and his prize. Thirty-six hours later he reached the fishing village, having climbed over numerous snow-capped mountains; which had never before been navigated. Recently, a modern mountaineering team, decked out with all the modern equipment available today, took three days to traverse the same route!
Well my friends,
Ernest did go back for his men, though months passed e’er he was able to
navigate the sea ice. His men were safe, and not one had perished.
We are marvelous
creatures indeed, and God has set such a mind and attitude in us. We have seen
the most secular and wicked of men achieve things beyond their wildest figments
and imaginations. What can God do with a man who is wholly sold out to Him?
I think the more
we cooperate with God, the greater our opportunity for success. He chooses to
work in us and through us, and bids us dream big dreams.
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