In
the movie, “Always” starring Richard Dreyfus and Holly Hunter, the ghostly male
character comes back from the dead, and says something like:
“The only pain we know here is the love we
failed to give there.”
Life rolls on at a furious pace, and too
many of us fail to love through words and actions. Good thoughts are nice, but
most people haven’t yet learned to read minds. There is a wonderful verse which characterizes "what I'm all about" and what I'd love to see replicated in your lives.
“But
day by day, and as long as today shall last, continue to encourage
one
another” (Hebrews 3:13, KJV)
Of course, the word “encouragement” can
imply confrontation, challenge and
the traditional meaning of the word, as well. I’m thinking of that third
meaning here.
There are those around us who need just a
little hug, or compliment or prayer. Most of us have recognized such a need in
“a fellow traveler” but have excused themselves from acting. Maybe it was “Oh,
they’ll think I’m nuts” or “It’s just not my personality to express myself that
way” or “I’ll stow that compliment away for tomorrow. I’m in a hurry today.”
Encouragement literally means to impart
courage. I have seen looks of delight that proceed from those I’ve
complimented. I have felt the relief among people who have realized that I
honestly cared, and could give a little guidance. I have seen people almost
revel in an earnest prayer prayed over them.
In my ministry, I attempt to compliment
anyone at anytime it seems feasible to do so. Granted, my “Love Language” is
Words. I appreciate compliments beyond any other thing in life. But
generically, most people love to be complimented. I refuse to move through this
life without an extreme effort to touch others with my words. Words are
magical. Words are spirit and they are life. Words can also be spirit and
death.
Scripture is our standard. Our Lord
encourages us. Again and Again. Should we do less?
By William McDonald, PhD. Excerpt from "Unconventional Devotions" Copyright 2005
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