The
counseling association to which I belonged at the time, The American
Association of Christian Counselors, was co-sponsoring a week-long conference
along with Focus on the Family in Denver, and I was determined to take
advantage of the opportunity.
Our hotel
was no more than a couple of blocks from the convention hall, and while I
attended various workshops during the day, my wife toured the local sites, such
as the Denver Mint, and Rocky Mountain National Park.
The week
passed quickly, and the event was everything I might have hoped for, or
expected. Dr. James Dobson, founder and then president of Focus on the Family,
spoke to the audience on the closing night of the conference. Afterwards, he
invited anyone who would to chat with him, pose for photos, (and no doubt, he
got writer’s cramp with all the autographs he gave out that evening.)
It so
happened that I was somewhere near the middle of a line of people which
stretched from one end of the auditorium to the other, and I decided to “bail
out.” Leaving the line, I walked to an exit door, and prepared to head back to
the hotel. But then
… I changed
my mind, and walked back from whence I’d come. I was going to talk to this man.
After all, I’d traveled 1500 miles to be here, and I doubted the opportunity
would ever repeat itself. Well, since I’d walked away, I was now forced to take
my place at the end of the line.
Slowly, but
surely the line moved forward, (with the emphasis on “slowly.”) Dr. Dobson must
have had the patience of Job, since he would pose for photos, and sometimes
summon family members to stand with their loved one. As I neared the imminent
psychologist, I heard Shirley Dobson utter a quiet complaint.
I looked
over at her, and was surprised to see the “First Lady of Focus on the Family”
standing there barefoot, and holding her sandals in one hand.
By this
time, I was no more than a few feet from Dr. Dobson, and he was speaking to his
last two or three participants of the event. And it was obvious that he planned
to attend to everyone in line, whether his wife was tired, hungry, or just
plain ready to go home. But to his credit, he did not say, “Well, darn Shirley.
Why did you bother to come with me, if you can’t hang loose, and let me do my
job?”
But it was
finally my turn, and Dr. Dobson smiled, and he looked my way.
I introduced
myself, got his autograph, and asked my question.
“Dr. Dobson,
what one recommendation would you suggest to a pastoral counselor?”
He put his
imminent demise out of his head, and replied,
“Well, if I
had more time, perhaps I’d come up with something wiser, or more interesting,
but I’d encourage you to be loyal to your clients, your pastor, your church,
and your God.”
I thanked
him, and stepped away; content that this was very good advice. It was time to
make that five minute walk back to the hotel.
But in the
meantime, time had slipped away from me, and it was approaching “the bewitching
hour.” My wife had long since begun wondering what had become of me, (since she
knew the meeting would have ended two hours ago,) and she had spoken to the
hotel security guard.
“Well ma’am,
perhaps he’s gone to a bar to get a couple of drinks.”
“No. No way.
He’s not like that. You don’t know him. He doesn’t drink.”
And they
agreed that he’d go looking for me if I didn’t appear within 5 minutes.
Well, I did.
And my wife
was not a “happy camper.”
Of course, I
apologized, and told her that time had gotten away from me, and that I’d been
talking with Dr. Dobson.
While the
psychologist with the initials “J.D.” might have slept on the sofa that night,
thankfully my wife was almost as big a fan as I am of “the man,” and the matter
was soon forgotten.
(By William McDonald, PhD. Excerpt from "Concepts, Teachings, Practicalities & Stories")
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