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Musings
Sunday, June 29, 2025
AND MEDICAID HITS THE DIRT
Tuesday, June 24, 2025
GIVING THE MAN A DIFFERENT NAME
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Our county sheriff is known throughout this nation for his honesty, outspokenness, toughness towards crime and criminals, and plain endurance. (He joined the Polk County Sheriff's Department over 50 years ago)!
Perhaps his most famous (or infamous) interview took place after one of his deputies and his K9 companion were murdered by an absolutely horrible hombre. After this criminal was tracked down by a horde of deputies, and "rendered lifeless," one reporter asked Sheriff Judd,
"Why did your deputies shoot that fellow 68 times?"
To which our sheriff replied,
"Because we ran outta bullets!"
I first met Sheriff Judd at a retirement party for our Winter Haven Police Chief, whom I know very well. At the time I served as a counselor for a residential ministry for women newly released from prison; a ministry which the sheriff at least informally co-sponsored.
As the sheriff walked up and engaged me in conversation, including his invitation to contact him, if I needed any assistance or guidance, I greeted him using his predecessor's name, Sheriff Crowe. I immediately recognized my verbal typo, and, no doubt, Sheriff Judd did as well, but he didn't bother correcting me. (I later sent him an email, and apologized for my gaff).
Fast forward a couple of years.
Today I had lunch with a local pastor at a local eatery.
As we stood in the buffet line, I looked behind me, and recognized, (you guessed it), Sheriff Crowe, I mean Judd. I vowed if I ever saw our illustrious law officer again that I would not repeat my memorable mistake. And since the good sheriff was a few paces behind me, and preoccupied with directing the server to give him chicken and mashed potatoes, or steak and turnip greens, as the case may be, I just "went about my business," completed my order, paid my bill, and returned to my seat.
Well, as it fell together, I was blessed with one more opportunity to massacre the good man's name. For you see, as Sheriff Judd walked past our table, he paused momentarily, and said,
"How are you guys today?"
In the space of a micro-second, I thought,
"You better get it right this time!"
And with this, I smiled and simply responded,
"Okay. Thanks."
(It's hard to mess up with such an innocuous response as that one. Now, I breathed a sigh of relief, and returned to my meal).
by Bill McDonald, PhD
Sunday, June 22, 2025
DR. STANLEY'S PRAYER CLOSET
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I was watching a video of the legacy
service for Dr. Charles Stanley yesterday. The new pastor, Anthony George, had
stepped to the pulpit and was sharing a few stories about his and Dr. Stanley's
relationship with one another over the course of several decades.
It seems Rev. George had been hired as
the associate pastor during the 1980's. There was a wide range in their ages,
as he was about 40 at the time, and Dr. Stanley had turned 80. Before much time
had elapsed, Anthony realized that he was much more a personal assistant to the
lead pastor than his actual title conveyed.
There were times when the divorced and
evidently lonely Dr. Stanley would ask his associate pastor to come over for
pizza, and they would settle down with a movie like, "Patton." (You
might surmise correctly that this writer was a bit surprised by that particular
choice in movies as "Patton" is replete with some pretty strong
language).
One story stood out from among the
rest for its abject humor. Rev. George was still new on the job when Dr.
Stanley said,
"Anthony, let me introduce you to
my prayer closet."
The good understudy promptly followed
Rev. Stanley to a 10x10 room in a nondescript hallway. Opening the door, the
two men stepped in, and the pastor closed the door, and proceeded to turn out
the overhead light. Blackness permeated their surroundings, and the younger man
wondered what would happen next.
As his eyes adjusted to the darkness a
bit, enough light permeated the threshold beneath the door to provide the
assistant a clue, and now he watched closely.
"Dr. Stanley dropped to his
knees. I followed his lead and dropped to my knees. Now, he got down on all
fours. ('Pretty agile for a man of 80,' I thought). And now, now he prostrated
himself on the carpet. I did the same."
Several hundred men, women and
children seemed captivated by his story. I know I was.
"I was new at this 'prayer
closet' thing, and I figured I would just do and say what Dr. Stanley did and
said. Suddenly, my mentor 'let out' with a 'Yes, Lord!' I echoed his words.
'Yes, Lord!'"
By now Rev. George's listeners were
laughing.
"And then silence permeated the
dark prayer room. It seems the good pastor thought of prayer as a conversation
between him and God; as if they both had something to say. And then, just as
suddenly as before Dr. Stanley seemed to muse,
'Hmmm!'
"I promptly responded with,
'Hmmm!'
The laughter grew louder.
"And then only silence for
several minutes 'til the 'Yes, Lord's' and 'Hmmm's' began again. I can tell you
that Dr. Stanley was a prayer warrior, and though my prayer room experience
with him wasn't the most comfortable thing I'd ever done, I was blessed to have
him as my friend and mentor for several decades."
Wednesday, June 18, 2025
A MOTHER'S DAY MIRACLE
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*A couple of years before Rev. Puckett passed
away, I had the privilege of meeting him, and sat down with him in his home.
Knowing that his wife had written a book about their children, marriage, and
their lives in general, I asked if I could borrow a copy.
Paul hesitated, but writing down my name and
address, he loaned me one of only two copies he still had. While I had the book
in my possession, I scanned the volume to a CD so that it might remain available for
his grandchildren and their grandchildren.
I might mention. I knew Beth. She and I were
in high school chorus together. She was a precious young lady, a Christian and
a person of great potential.
Following is a poignant excerpt from Martha
Puckett's book.
Almost a quarter of a century has transpired
since our dear daughter left us, though she remains very much alive in the life
of our family. God has used her death to impact many others along the way, and
we have used our excruciating experience to help others during their time of
grief.
While it was inestimably difficult to pass
through the valley of the shadow of death, I am happy to say that our Savior
has led us all the way, and that in our most trying times, God never forsook
us.
(But following is where I most wanted to bring
you this evening).
Beth had hardly been gone three months when I
began to dread Mother’s Day. Our daughter had always been so loving and
thoughtful on holidays, and I knew that it would be a difficult 24 hours. But I
had my duties at the organ, and I realized that it was a day that would just
have to be lived, and put behind us.
On Mother’s Day morning, as I was in the
process of getting dressed, I reached to get something out of my drawer. The
drawer was stuck, and I jerked it open. When I did, it fell out on the floor,
and all its contents were scattered across the room. Of course, I was
frustrated, and exclaimed, “Lord, I don’t need this. Not today.”
Reaching up under the space from which I
pulled the drawer, I felt around …and touched a large envelope. I inhaled
deeply. In my hand I held a Mother’s Day card which Beth had given to me the
previous year. I opened it, and wept, as I read the familiar handwriting.
RAISED IN A CHICKEN COOP
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This past weekend, my wife and I
attended a vocal concert presented by one of my social media friends.
Lisbeth recounted her childhood in
Central America, and how that she lived in a house with a dirt floor, no
electricity, and no indoor plumbing. And while we have all heard of the
existence of such conditions in so-called “third world countries,” when someone
you know recounts having experienced an environment such as this, well, it gets
your attention.
Here in America we take a lot for
granted, I think, but we are not all that far removed from poverty. There are
the ghettos which abound in all the big cities of the United States, the folks
who live in their automobiles, young and not so young adults who stand in the
medians of highways, and hold up “I will work for food” signs, and men, women
and children who live in tents in trash-ridden out of the way places along
railroad tracks.
For years I was under the impression
that I had always been a member of a middle class culture; ‘til one day my
mother shared a story with me. While I have the dimmest memory of having lived
in the Coral Gables area of South Florida, (I was 0-5 at the time) what my
mother told me that day put a whole new perspective on my childhood.
For you see, mama informed me that
while my dad eked out a living as a roofer, we lived
…in a chicken coop.
Well, to be fair, a refurbished
chicken coop. Apparently, one day my parent’s landlord decided that housing
human beings would be more profitable than housing chickens. And thus, on such
and such a day, she slaughtered, butchered, and refrigerated the chickens, and
converted their former nesting place into a rental apartment; suitable for
human occupation.
To be sure, the floor was cement and
tile, and we had electricity and running water. But I am told that “when nature
called,” or we needed a bath, we had to walk out the front door, into the yard,
through an enclosed porch, and into a mutual bathroom attached to the
landlord’s home.
While my formative years were spent in
a chicken coop, compared to the friend to whom I have previously alluded, I
think I had it pretty good.
FINDING A SEAT ON THE FLOOR
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As
I was watching the David Jeremiah “Turning Point” broadcast today, the good
minister presented the most poignant illustration.
It
seems a very large, rather formal church hoped to put together a ministry
designed to reach the students of a nearby university. However, not having ever
undertaken such a project, the pastor and board were a bit perplexed about how
to approach the task.
On
one particular Sunday, a student of that university attended the morning
worship service. It so happened that David was, like so many other young adults
who attended this school, a bit eccentric, or at least wanted to ‘fit in,’ and was
dressed in a pair of faded jeans, dirty t-shirt, and sandals. His hair was cut
into a mohawk, and was tie-dyed in several colors.
However,
David arrived a few minutes late, and as he entered the sanctuary, he realized
that every pew was full to capacity. As a result, the teenaged student walked
the entire length of the center carpet, and plopped himself down in the aisle.
You could have heard a pin drop. Though the pastor had stepped up to the pulpit
to deliver his morning message, he seemed unable to proceed.
Suddenly,
from the back of the sanctuary an aged, white-haired deacon appeared, and began
to make his way down the aisle towards the hapless university student. His
relatively short journey was hampered by his lack of mobility, and his cane
‘clicked,’ ‘clicked’ with each step her took.
A
holy hush permeated the building as the board member made his way closer,
closer to his quest. All eyes were directed towards the deacon, then the
student, then the deacon.
Finally,
having arrived next to the boy, and pausing for a moment, the old gent dropped
his cane, and struggled to… lower himself to the floor beside David. And there
they sat. One very young, and unconventional student. One very old, and
conventional deacon. Side by side, and ready for a Gospel message.
And
at this juncture, the pastor regained a bit of his composure, and exclaimed,
“What
I am about to preach you will never remember. What you have just witnessed take
place before you, you will never forget.”
ROLE MODELING LOVE
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A
white haired, elderly lady sat in her rocking chair by the fire, and reminisced
about the most poignant of experiences. While she possessed an obvious German
accent, her English was, nonetheless, impeccable.
While
I cannot hope to recount her testimony as well as she expressed herself on the
film segment, I will attempt to paraphrase her story here.
“We
had endured years of warfare and deprivation. We made do with the most meager
of rations. We existed with the barest of earthly essentials. We often went
without food, and my mother, more so than her children. As I reflect on it now,
she oft times went without meat and bread, so that each of her children would
have at least a scrap or two.
“In
spite of all we’d endured, we didn’t think of the Americans as our enemies, but
rather our opponents. For you see, we knew what we had. We knew what Hitler and
his cronies were about. We knew whom we had served for too long. And we were so
tired and ready for peace.
“Well,
as the American tanks lumbered in, and the sound of their treads echoed in our
streets, we ran out of our houses with sticks in our hands, and with white rags
knotted about the tops. And while both we and our parents were afraid for what
might come next, our sense of apprehension was stilled by the smiles of the men
who came flooding out of the turrets of those tanks, and who marched behind
them. And oh, how kind they were to us, as they stooped to pick us up, and they
brushed the fear from our eyes.
“Of
course, in spite of the American troops’ initial behavior, my mother expressed
some reservations and warned me to be careful. However, she had often told me
that you could always tell what someone was about by looking into their eyes;
and I was determined to put her philosophy to the test.
“I
remember one man. One very special man. A Negro sergeant.
“Unlike
the German soldiers, he let me climb up on his military vehicle. And I will
never forget the first day I met him. For as I climbed up on the American Jeep,
I immediately looked into his eyes. And oh, such kindness shone out of them!
And I remember Sergeant William hung a bag of rations around my neck, and waved
for me to take it home with me!
“And
I have often thought that he went without some of his daily provisions so that
my family and I might have a few morsels of chocolate, and bread and canned
meat. And as long as the kindly sergeant was still in the area, I would seek
him out, and he would give me chocolate and other goodies to take home with me.
“I
will NEVER forget that wonderful American soldier; the first black man I’d ever
seen. And I will NEVER forget what an ambassador he was of the occupation his
country exercised over us after the war. No doubt, he has gone on to his reward
by now, but he will always be my mentor and role model. Always. Always.
“I
am old now, but I have never ceased to remember that good man and his kindness
to me. And I have ALWAYS vowed to do as he did; to love people and to give my
heart and provisions to those in need, and them whom God has set in my
pathway.”