Thursday, October 9, 2025

A PILGRIMAGE TO SALEM

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Pt. 1

I have always wanted to visit Salem, Massachusetts

It is a sad and convoluted story, but I have family ties there; undesired, undenied, but undisputable ties there.

As any serious student of history knows, between 1692 and 1693 dozens of Salem's citizens were accused of being witches, and approximately thirty were not only judged, but found guilty. As a result, most were hung by the neck 'til dead, at least one was pressed to death by heavy stones, and several died in prison.

I regret to say that two of my ancient uncles, Joseph and Jarvis Ring, were involved in that nasty business. 

Fast forward exactly three and one third centuries

Recently my wife and I were in Massachusetts. Our daughter had undergone surgery in Boston, remained in the hospital several days, and was released to return home. Having been released, Kristy insisted on driving the two hours which lay ahead of us. 

However, we had hardly left the hospital when our plans abruptly changed.

Our daughter spoke.

"How about we take a slight detour? Haven't you always wanted to see Salem?"

To which I replied,

"Well, you have just completed a serious operation. Wouldn't you rather head on home?"

Not to be deterred, Kristy was determined to follow through with her plan.

Pt. 2

Not knowing Massachusetts, I had no idea I might have almost walked the 15 miles between Boston and Salem. We were there before a half hour had elapsed.

I had read the testimonies of my maternal 9th great uncles, Joseph and Jarvis. I knew they had accused, and testified against a woman. I had seen photos of the Salem memorial stones; each one bearing the name of one of the accused so-called "witches." 

One of the stones was inscribed with the name, Susannah Martin. 

I stood there for the longest time. And I found myself doing penance, as it were; on the part of mouths which no longer had the wherewithal to utter an accusing word.

"I am so, so sorry, Susannah. You were wrongfully deprived of a long, good life. I ask your forgiveness. My family asks your forgiveness."

 It seemed a weight, almost as heavy as that memorial stone, fell off my shoulders. 

Scripture speaks of generational blessings and curses. I am not altogether sure how this dynamic applies to we who live in the New Testament; those who placed their faith in a merciful Savior, who have been forgiven of their sins, and have been saved by grace.

However, I not only did what I had to do that day. I did what I had desperately wanted to do.

As a counselor I have often told my clients,

"There are no time machines."

And yet, I like to think I fulfilled a personal mission that day which will serve, as best just one man can, to reconcile a severe injustice inflicted upon someone who in no way deserved it.

Rest in peace, Susannah. Rest in peace.

by Bill McDonald, PhD






TINNITUS & LIPO FLAVONOID

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I am writing a similar post to the one I wrote recently, as I have a great deal of compassion for people who suffer with Tinnitus (ringing in the ears).

Tinnitus often originates from having been exposed to loud noise over a period of time. I drove a UPS vehicle for 20 years, and the inside engine cover was next to my right foot.
I have struggled with Tinnitus for years. No doubt, some people perceive the sound of crickets or bells in both ears, whereas I have experienced Tinnitus in mainly my right ear.
Three or four months ago I purchased a bottle of Lipo Flavonoid pills, and began taking one tablet in the morning and one at night. (I purchased the brand which uses "Lipo Flavonoid" as the brand name).
I can tell you my Tinnitus symptoms disappeared in the course of a couple of days! How absolutely pleasant the lack of my "ghost crickets" has been!!! (How do you spell "relief")?
Now, I can't tell you that you will have similar results, but I would encourage you to try Lipo Flavonoid. You don't know 'til you try. (Another possibility is a hearing aid type device which is available, I presume, in hearing aid establishments, and which emits a tone which cancels out the sound related to Tinnitus).
I hope you find relief, as I have.
Bill McDonald, PhD

A RIVER RUNS THROUGH IT

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By Sanjay Talwani

Independent Record

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HELENA, Mont. — Arnold Richardson was not the best-known Montanan to appear in a Hollywood movie, but his solitary bit part — as the elderly Norman Maclean in "A River Runs Through It" — remains one of the most iconic cinematic images of the state, partly responsible, for better or worse, for the explosion in the popularity of fly fishing in the 1990s.

For Richardson, who retired to Townsend and died Dec. 6 at 96, the response to a casting call in a Livingston newspaper led to an enjoyable brush with fame and a well-paying job one autumn. It was also a fitting highlight in a lifetime of love for Montana's fish and streams and wild places.

"He could spend literally days on a river," his stepson, Norman Spencer, said by telephone from his home in Florida. "The whole concept was almost transcendent. ... It's almost like he was transformed when he got on a river."

"Hours would go by," Spencer said. "I'd be ready to go home. He'd still be there fishing and have no concept of what time it was. He would just really get lost in it."

It's been said, Spencer noted, that trout don't live in ugly places.

"They live in some of the most beautiful, serene areas, the mountains, in cold clean water," he said. "It's always very picturesque types of locations, where the water is always pristine. Because the fish need to have ice cold water to live."

Richardson was born in Maine in 1914 and worked with his father in construction endeavors. After he finished high school, they moved to Washington state, where the elder Richardson created a company making wooden blinds.

Arnold became a bricklayer and spent much of World War II as a civilian on government projects throughout Alaska, before moving back to Maine.

But the life of a bricklayer involved lots of travel, and some of that brought him to Montana, where he learned to fly fish in the late 1940s, Spencer said.

A big moment in his fishing life came around 1948 outside Mack's Inn, on the Henry's Fork of the Snake River in Idaho, where he caught so many fish, in such spectacular fashion, that it earned him a free T-bone steak.

"The chef told me his customers seated at the window went wild over my fishing," Richardson told the Independent Record in 2005. "He said that any time I wanted to come and fish outside the restaurant, he'd give me a free meal."

He also got work as a fishing guide, which paid more than bricklaying. He kept on guiding, and his reputation grew, into the 1950s, Spencer said.

A construction accident — an electrocution — sent him back to Maine, where he met and married Frances, Spencer's mother, in the mid-1960s. Construction work kept the family traveling, and finally they settled in Livingston in the mid-1970s, by Spencer's estimation.

There, they ran the Sherwood Inn, a senior living center, for about 15 years.

In 1991, Robert Redford and crew arrived in Montana, and Spencer persuaded his father to respond to a small ad, seeking men in their 70s. "Must be excellent fly casters," the notice read.

"I was the one that kind of pushed him into it," Spencer said.

According to an account by John Dietsch, in charge of what he called the "casting casting call," for the role of the elderly Maclean in the film's final scene, he narrowed the field down to two men with beautiful casting ability: a younger one, who tied his knot in his line smoothly and with finesse, and an older man, who struggled and shook, mentioned that his eye's weren't so good, and spent a good five minutes trying to tie his knot — a Turle knot.

Dietsch recounts the episode in his and Gary Hubbell's book, "Shadow Casting: An Introduction to the Art of Fly Fishing." Dietsch reported back to Redford that the younger old man might be the best choice, but that the older old man's hands shook, and he might take on awful long time trying to tie a knot on cameras.

Redford asked to meet the older man — Richardson — and eventually hired him.

"The shaking hands struggling to tie a knot at the end of the film are a trademark of the movie, and tell a story in themselves," Dietsch wrote. "Looking back at it, in my haste to 'succeed,' I had lost my sense of compassion while working on the film, and in doing I had missed the magic that unfolded right in front of my eyes. I missed the message on the backs of the old man's veined, transparent, and leathered hands — the yearning that any man his age, feeling this passage of time, would have for his younger days — the gentle acceptance that indeed those days were gone forever."

Richardson enjoyed working on the film, although like any, it involved a lot of standing around waiting. He worked with Redford and with Brad Pitt and was paid well, Spencer said.

He had never read the novel — which elevated fly fishing to near-religious status — until he got the part.

In time, the couple retired, and chose Townsend because of the fishing in Canyon Ferry Lake, said Spencer. Richardson switched from wading directly in streams to fishing from boats, of which he owned a few at different times.

Beth Ihle and her husband, Kevin McDonnell, who lived next door to the Richardsons for several years in Townsend, bought Arnold Richardson's last boat. And they inherited the couple's cat.

"He was well into his 80s," Ihle said. "Frances was worried about him because he would stay out all day."

The boat included a 1970s-era outboard motor, Ihle said.

"He showed us how to run it, since it wasn't that apparent," she said.

One time, backing down a ramp, Arnold hooked part of his trailer on the dock, ripping a light off. It was a comic moment, but time to get Arnold off the lake, Ihle said.

"They were just great people as neighbors," said McDonnell. Frances in particular had a great relationship with Ihle's and McDonnell's four children, they said. "She knew more about what was going on in our house than I did," McDonnell said of Frances.

The couple loved seafood, including lobster and shrimp, which they would buy in large quantities — a legacy of their Maine heritage.

In the tradition of Maine fishermen, Arnold didn't brag about his movie stardom, although he did have a promotional poster of the movie signed by Redford.

"I didn't put two and two together," Ihle said. "He said, 'Yeah, I was in the movie.'"

Arnold Richardson shared some of his casting ability, along with his prestige from the movie, with local students. John O'Dell, teaches "A River Runs Through It," each year to his 10th grade English class at Broadwater High School. One year, Richardson came and spoke about the movie and demonstrated fly casting to the students.

"He talked about Montana, how important it was to him, and fishing," he said. "He kind of lit up. ... You could definitely see the youth and vitality come out when he was speaking."

Speaking just before Christmas break, O'Dell said the students had just finished studying the book and had viewed the movie, including the famous final scene.

"I was thinking today, how skilled he was," he said. "His rhythm was beautiful."

The love of fishing was passed to Norman Spencer, who said he's fished just about every stream in the state, from the Kootenai River to the Bighorn and everywhere in between.

"He often said, jokingly, that he was one of the main reasons that fly fishing became as popular as it did, and maybe in a way he was right," Spencer said. "The movie generated — I won't say a storm — but it created a keen interest in the sport."

That's meant more and more pressure on the blue-ribbon streams, with a nearly continuous flow of boats and rafts on some rivers during peak season. On the other hand, more and more people enjoy it, and it's created an economic bounty in the state from fly shops to guides to motels and more.

"He often said, maybe he created too much of a monster," Spencer said.

The Richardsons moved into Broadwater Health Center about five years ago after some ups and downs with health, say neighbors, and over the last few years Spencer made several visits from Florida, where he recently retired from a career in the shipping industry. Frances stayed relatively sharp, but Arnold's mental faculties declined the last few years.

Frances died Nov. 23; Arnold followed Dec. 6.

The last thing he said was, he was looking for Frances.




Wednesday, October 8, 2025

HUGS

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My mind wanders back to a singular incident in a rather nondescript place.

 

The process that brought me to that time and place began in a heretofore unfamiliar setting. I sat at a table with several representatives of the mental health profession, a lawyer, a judge and… my daughter. We hadn’t met to have tea or “shoot the breeze.” I was there to insist on my Mary’s commitment to the state mental facility at Arcadia. She is schizophrenic, and had been "acting out" badly.

 

I was a little amazed that her public defender verbally ignored my daughter’s needs. His entire purpose was to “get her off.” However, he failed in his task, thanks to her doctors, and my own testimony. When it was all said and done, my Mary cried hot tears, as we were led to a small, empty room, and were given a few moments to say our good byes. I’ll never forget her hopelessness, or my inner turmoil that day.

 

I will always be thankful, for though she has experienced a few relapses over the years, this was her first real opportunity to heal, stabilize and exhibit change. Every second or third weekend, my wife and I drove south to visit Mary. It was a long trip, and the scenery consisted of small towns and pasture land.

 

We had just driven up to her particular domicile, and, as usual, she was there to greet us. However, this time there was someone else with her whom I did not know. He was a “big old boy.” This young man must have weighed 300 pounds, and “hovered” at about six foot. I didn’t know how to relate to him, but decided I’d just have to do my best.

 

But just when I decided I didn’t much like Mary wasting my time with this guy, the incredible happened. Momentary Ministry.

The young fellow looked me directly in the eyes, and uttered a few words:

 

“No one ever visits me here. Not my parents. Not my friends. WILL YOU HUG ME?”

 

Well! You guessed it. Right before God and everybody, I wrapped him in my arms, and held him for several moments. His arms also embraced me, and I felt his head as it drooped onto my left shoulder. And if for only one moment, he knew someone cared. (Tears come to my eyes even now).

 

You never forget moments like that. I have often wondered what became of that young man.

 

My sensitivity to The Vulnerable among us has increased.

 

By William McDonald, PhD


Monday, October 6, 2025

AS IF BY MAGIC

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While I have decided to hold off joining Gideons International for the time being, I have been sharing their small New Testaments with store clerks, cashiers, bagboys, waitresses, and others for several weeks.

Sometimes I simply say, 

"Let me give you a little gift."

And sometimes I say,

"I have a small book for you."

And once I made the comment,

"My elementary teacher gave me a little volume... 70 years ago. I have one very much like it here. I want you to have it."

And without an exception, each and every man and woman among them have said, "Thank you." 

A couple of times I left one of the testaments on a counter or book rack. I recall leaving one on a pavilion table at a beach park. Another time on the counter at my local post office.

However, yesterday I put a decided spin on my distribution of the small spiritual volume.

For you see, I had driven up to a nearby Publix Supermarket to pick up something for supper, pulled into a parking place, grabbed a New Testament from a plastic bag on the floor, and stuffed it into my left front pocket.

It was then that I noticed the man.

A fellow wearing a Terminix uniform was unloading several bags of groceries into his company truck. He had apparently stopped to buy a few things on his way home from work. And it was then that I decided to bequeath a copy of THE book to this young man.

Now, I walked down the sidewalk which bordered the north side of the supermarket. And now, I passed behind the truck. (The exterminator was still standing by the passenger side of his vehicle). Suddenly, I reached into my pocket, grabbed the precious little volume, laid it in the child seat, and continued my trek to the supermarket door.

Whereas I assumed the young fellow would relocate the buggy closer to the store wall, or push it back into the store, and discover the book, (as if it appeared by magic), it could not help but be discovered by someone in short order.

One of the more novel approaches I have used in my attempt to distribute the Word of God.

by Bill McDonald, PhD




Saturday, October 4, 2025

REACHING THE STARS

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I will never forget Andy Bos; a 90+ year old man who attended our local church, and who happened to be the grandfather of the well-known television and movie star, Taylor Lautner; (who has just completed the popular Twilight film series).

Time would fail me to provide you an understanding of the quality and quantity of Andy’s life and spirituality. Suffice it to say that he was a wonderful man who was taken up with Jesus Christ, his Savior, and looked forward to his long-awaited home in heaven. (In the last few days of his life, it was my distinct privilege to stand by his bed, and sing a couple of hymns to him. And as I did what I could to make his final journey easier, Andy raised his frail hands and whispered, “Hallelujah. Hallelujah.”)

A year or two prior to my friend’s death, I was provided the opportunity to teach a couple of Wednesday night series at my church, and Andy was faithful to attend. It happens that all our services are taped, and Mr. Bos made me aware that he always made a point to pick up one of my teaching cd’s at the end of each of my presentations.

More than once as I was chatting with him, Andy would smile and say,

“Brother Royce, you know my grandson is the actor Taylor Lautner, (star of the "Twilight" movie series). I have been sending him copies of your Wednesday night messages.”

To which I, no doubt, responded,

“Well, I hope he takes time to listen to them.”

(And I truly hope he has taken time to both listen, and reflect on his eternal destiny).

On this side of heaven, we will never fully realize the impact which we may, as believers, be afforded.

Only eternity will tell the tale.

by Bill McDonald, PhD

THE L.A. FREEWAY & DOLLAR GENERAL

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I stopped by Dollar General today, as I needed some dog and cat food, and flashlight batteries.

I could tell I was in for a long wait at the cash register as soon as I pulled up; since the parking lot was chuck full of vehicles. And while I had the option of driving another block to Dollar Tree, I have always preferred Dollar General.

I got out of my car, walked into the store, grabbed a buggy, and headed back to the dog and cat food section. Now, I retrieved 4 cans for each species, and headed back to the front of the store; (as I surmised the batteries might be found there). As I reached my desired destination, my initial guesstimate proved correct. 

I had never seen such a long line of customers waiting to be checked out. There were easily twenty people in line. 

And now I commented to the man behind me, 

"It looks like the L.A. Freeway!"

And now I asked a nearby customer, "Do you know where the batteries are?"

The man smiled, and said, "Look behind you!"

Turning around I saw a host of brands and sizes of batteries. However, it was soon apparent that the Triple A batteries were near the bottom of the display. And given the line of customers beside me, and how little room I had, it was impossible to face the rack on which the batteries hung, and bend over to retrieve the type I needed. 

I did the only thing I could possibly do in that particular circumstance.

Standing parallel with the long line of men and women, and facing the same direction as they themselves faced, I fell forward, allowed the palms of my hands to lay flat on the floor, kicked my feet back behind me, and ended up in the pushup position. (I could not help mentally congratulating myself). 

"Pretty good for a guy three years away from 80," I thought. 

Funny, I felt perfectly at ease among all these people, (though I expect some of them were surprised with my gymnastics)!

Now, I sat down on the floor in front of the battery rack, and chose a package of Energizer batteries, once again put the palms of my hands on the floor, hopped up, and regained a standing position.

As I stood up, and took my place in line, I happened to look behind me. 

A young boy of 6 or 7 tugged on his mother's hand and exclaimed,

"Mom! Did you see what that old man just did?"

(and)

"He's buying batteries.

(and)

..."Does he think he's the Energizer Bunny?"

by Bill McDonald, PhD